How I manifested Love for my Birthday

I’ve been in a deep love bubble for the past 2 1/2 weeks post birthday (yes, I’m a solid Aries Sun Sign😆). 

And have been thoroughly enjoying the beautiful state of bliss, tenderness and ecstasy that has entered my life since Easter.

But this state of love + being met has also been wildly unfamiliar.
You see, for the past five years, I’ve been painfully single. When I say painfully, I mean, I’ve been on a deep path of soul-searching to how I could prepare myself for the kind of love I’ve been desiring.
I yearned to be met by a conscious man, one whom would love me in my light + darkness. A man whom would love my daughter as his own. A man of courage and conviction, one who would inspire and ignite me in opening to the greatest love I’d ever known, forgetting all of my past hurts. One whom would inspire me to stand in my fullest power and share it with the world. 

A spiritually evolved man whom I could teach with, and co-create the most wildly beautiful life brimming with orgasms,  laughter, intimacy, and art-filled days making music, raising children, and living on sacred land. A man whom I could go the long walk with – through the depths of darkness and shining in the illumination. A King whom I could build my empire and life with. 

This yearning burned me up from inside. It gnawed at my heart. It seeped into my dreams at night. And yet, I still had yet to meet someone who made my pussy ache with knowing and my heart sigh with content. 

Then 3 years ago after a particularly torrid and brief love affair that left my heart crushed and my soul begging to be heard, I knew I had to get serious about healing my Father Wounds. I knew I had deep inner healing work to do in order to prepare myself for the kind of love that withstood the tests, challenges and initiations that all great love encounters on its path. 


While I share and teach on Sacred Sexuality, Intimacy & Love…..there were deeper codes to be revealed within myself around attachment, abandonment wounds, and inner child healing.

On the quest of doing the inner work to prepare myself for my King, I: 

• Did some deep shadow work around men in my life which revealed the deeper pain & anger I carried towards my father.

• Explored the healing of my inner feminine & masculine polarities, studied attachment theory, ancestral trauma clearing and family constellation work

• Did all kinds of journal writing practices, forgiveness rituals, energy healing ceremonies, and every kind of feng shui hack you could employ for calling in love.



1. Getting clear on your BIG VISION


The second thing I attribute to making my first six-figures was enrolling in my very first mastermind. I had never heard of one before, but I knew they were powerful in helping one elevate and transform. I had been following this leadership mentor for quite a while and deeply admired how she wrote, what she was into and who she was. A few months until the birth and I found myself on the application page filling it out with high energy. I didn’t even care about the price (which was listed at the bottom of the application -with monthly installments roughly equal to what I made each month) or how much it was, because I JUST KNEW I needed her help and this circle of women. I knew I couldn’t do this without them and that the money would come if it was meant to be. 

And so weeks before the mastermind was going to begin, while I didn’t know how the money would come in, I just trusted, and prayed, and meditated. 

The idea to start my own mastermind came in loud and clear, and the 13 Moon Sisterhood was born. It was beautiful and pushed me to new levels of my power and leadership. Many of the women from that group are in my life today as friends and allies, and grateful for that container to transform their lives + business. 

This container not only was a great way for me to expand my level of service but it also became a foundation for my life’s sacred work – supporting other women in service, in their self-care, in their sacred sexual expression and health, and through living an abundant life. 


So of course, from my experience, masterminds and coaches are one of the secrets that people use to experience success in their businesses. Because it works. Because receiving consistent support for you to be consistent in your focus, vision, and service is paramount. 

Being an entreprenuer running your own business holds many challenges, yet if you let yourself be supported by not only someone who knows what you don’t, but you also allow yourself to be celebrated by other Queens, it’s far easier than wandering in the dark hoping for change. 

Because, they will lovingly challenge and support you to be their best – because you being in your highest states of happiness, pleasure and success will also support them in being in their highest states of pleasure. 

When the Queen’s Council vision was received – I was asked to help these Queen’s experience their first six-figures as a means of giving back for all of the support I’ve received over the years, so I am sooooo excited to watch these Queens step into new levels of pleasure, power and prosperity. 

Feeling the Call to Claim your Throne this year & experience your first 6-figures? 


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